The Heart of a Poet

by Guest Blogger on January 25, 2010 · 26 comments

in Guest Blogger, J-L, Jane Austen

by Sharon Lathan, guest blogger and author of My Dearest Mr. Darcy

The pearly treasures of the sea,
The lights that spatter heaven above,
More precious than these wonders are
My heart-of-hearts filled with your love.

- Heinrich Heine, “Of Pearls and Stars”

Several years ago I set out on a mission. Inspired partly by a beautiful love story portrayed on screen and within the pages of a book, and equally by my own love story of over twenty years, I embarked on a quest to intimately reveal a happy marriage.

Today the concept of a “happy marriage” is deemed a fantasy; an oxymoron. I do not believe that, not now or when I first sat down at the keyboard and wrote the opening lines of Mr. & Mrs. Fitzwilliam Darcy: Two Shall Become One. I knew it was possible to have a fulfilling, contented, romantic, and passionate relationship within a marriage, even after several decades. I knew it because I witnessed it with others. I knew it because God said it was to be so. I knew it because I possessed one myself.

And the moments which find life there
Become the brightest stars above,
Which live forever beautiful
In the sky of my heart’s love.

- Steve Lathan, “Your Smile Stops the Minutes”

I knew it was not a “Mission: Impossible.” I approached the life of Fitzwilliam and Elizabeth Darcy with my goal clearly in mind. The mission statement was clear. Love. Romance. Passion. Those are the attainable treasures that they would pursue. Daily. Weekly. Monthly. Yearly. And maybe even on into eternity.

Throughout my Darcy Saga series I have faithfully held to the ideal. I wanted to give Darcy and Lizzy the life that I believe Austen intended. I wanted to allow the reader to journey along with them as they attended to their normal lives with an unusual event thrown in occasionally. I wanted to show the Darcys growing in their accord and deepening their love.

Time is too slow for those who wait, too swift for those who fear,
too long for those who grieve, too short for those who rejoice,
but for those who love, time is eternity
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- Henry van Dyke, “Time Is”

My newest novel, My Dearest Mr. Darcy, follows along in the same vein as the previous two. The Darcys travel to the seacoast for a holiday jammed with history, entertainment, action, and romance. Of course! Then they return to Pemberley, settling in and enjoying the autumn months. The culmination as their first year of marriage draws near is the birth of their child. As with all my novels, the theme is positive with the love between these two heightening as they await the addition to their family.

Have I convinced a skeptical world? Have I succeeded in restoring hope? That is for each individual to decide. I have succeeded in my mission: The Darcys are still in love, are passionate for each other, delight in their company, respect and honor their vows, and are not ashamed to express their feelings.

Darcy was gazing into his lap with a soft smile upon his mouth. He did not answer hastily, finally speaking lowly, “I do not know if I can sufficiently place it into words. Perhaps that is why the poets wax eloquent with platitudes and analogies as mere common phrases do not suffice. All I know for certain is that almost from the moment I saw her she has filled my senses and my heart. There is joy with Elizabeth in every way and every moment, whether present or no. I feel light and buoyant, yet also grounded and secure. Giddy and frivolous, yet strong and steady. Childish and masculine simultaneously.” He chuckled softly, closing his eyes and leaning back against the carriage wall. “Yet you know what the most miraculous part is, Richard? Greater than how she makes me feel is the miracle that she loves me.”

An excerpt from My Dearest Mr. Darcy © Sharon Lathan, Sourcebooks Landmark 2010

True love. Everlasting love. Passionate love. These are goals to reach for. Do you agree?

MY DEAREST MR. DARCY—IN STORES JANUARY 2010

Married life is bringing out the best in the Darcys. Their mutual attentiveness brings readers into a magical world of love and wedded bliss.

Elizabeth is growing into her role as Mistress of Pemberley, and Darcy has mellowed under her gentle teasing and light-heartedness. Pemberley becomes a true home and a welcoming environment for loving family and friends. The Darcys travel to the seaside, welcome their firstborn, celebrate their anniversary and second Christmas, and at every moment embrace the love gifted to them.

“I love you, my Elizabeth. You are my soul, my blood and bone, my very life.”

ABOUT THE AUTHOR

Sharon Lathan is the author of the bestselling Mr. and Mrs. Fitzwilliam Darcy: Two Shall Become One, and Loving Mr. Darcy: Journeys Beyond Pemberley. In addition to her writing, she works as a Registered Nurse in a Neonatal ICU. She resides in Hanford, California in the sunny San Joaquin Valley. For more information on Sharon and her saga, come to her website at: www.darcysaga.net

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1 Laura Hartness January 25, 2010 at 11:23 AM

Sharon writes: “True love. Everlasting love. Passionate love. These are goals to reach for. Do you agree?”

I agree that true and everlasting love are worth reaching for. I believe them to be interchangeable. If it’s true, it’ll last forever. It doesn’t mean you won’t make mistakes with your love, but you will always love your partner. There has only been One to inhabit perfect love (true,everlasting and passionate), and He never had a romantic relationship. So the rest of us do our best in our true love for each other.

As far as passionate love… I think having a goal of this is a personal thing. There are many happy marriages that do not seem passionate, yet they are quietly and happily in love. This is frequently seen in couples who’ve been married for 50 years who love each other deeply, yet are quiet about it. Or it just be that a young couple deeply loves in their own quiet way. As long as both sides aren’t missing their personal need for passion and are happy in their love for each other, it’s okay.

But I’m sure there are many that would argue differently…

Laura Hartness
The Calico Critic
CalicoCritic at gmail dot com

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2 Sharon Lathan January 25, 2010 at 11:42 AM

Excellent, Laura! I am glad you spoke of our Lord. Jesus never experience physical, man-woman love. However, He is the personification of Love and Romance. Our pastor constantly points out how romantic our Lord is. Romance is not just bringing flowers, but is in any way that a loved one expresses their special emotion toward that person. Jesus does this very well!

As for passion, this, like romance, is not only about sexual love. Passion can be wildly exhibited or it can be quiet. Passion simply means to feel very strongly about a particular person or thing. How that is conveyed may vary, as you pointed out. A couple may even be in a situation where they cannot physically make love, but this does not automatically mean they are no longer passionate for each other.

Thanks for being on-the-spot as always, Laura!! When my blog tour is done you must pop in to my website now and again or I shall miss you! :)

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3 Laura Hartness January 25, 2010 at 12:00 PM

Sharon:

LOL… I’ll certainly be on the radar somewhere!

Thanks for your response. You made a good point about the couple who are physically incapable of being passionate. The late Christopher and Dana Reeve come to mind. They certainly exhibited that kind of passionate love.

Laura
The Calico Critic

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4 Laura Hartness January 25, 2010 at 12:14 PM

Oh, and thanks again for another giveaway. Trying again! I know the rules say, “One Winner”, but I’d like to enter to win just Book 1 & 2, as I won Book 3 in another contest. Maybe another contestant could get Book 3 if I get lucky and win??

Here’s Hoping!

Laura Hartness
The Calico Critic
CalicoCritic at gmail dot com

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5 Sarah Ruiz-Martinez January 25, 2010 at 12:16 PM

In so much of today’s fiction; in books, tv, and movies; there is a lot of attention given to broken relationships/marriages and general unhappiness among spouses. I really enjoy and admire how you have created a story about how happy a marriage can be and two people who truly love each other.
I think that True Love and Everlasting Love are gifts from the Lord. I tell my daughters almost every night that Mommy and Daddy love them more than anybody else in the world, (even more Grandma Laurie), but that God loves them more than Mommy and Daddy ever could.

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6 Sharon Lathan January 25, 2010 at 2:10 PM

Hi Sarah! Thanks for following me over and thanks for your comments. I totally agree about how marriage is portrayed and that it is a gift from God. I love what you tell your kids! Since I know them, I can attest to how wonderful they are and blessed to have parents with their priorities straight. God bless you Laura. :)

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7 Nora Moore January 25, 2010 at 3:31 PM

I have been blessed to witness few bad marriages in my life. That has been the fortunate environment of my life. I do confess I have witness problems, but for the most part, those have been worked out.

My parents, while not the most demonstrative, have a good relationship, as do my aunt and uncle. My cousins and 2 of my siblings have good marriages as far as personalities and circumstances go.

The one that stands out the most to me, and that I hope to have someday is a marriage like my grandparents. I remember attending their 50th anniversary as a child and thinking that it was a ridiculously long time. When my grandfather died in 1997, it was very difficult, but not so hard for us as it was for Grandma. She had many medical problems and we had to help with her care. After Grandpa died, she gave up. She only lived another 9 months. I found out after that Grandpa had once told her he didn’t know what he’d do if he had to come home to an empty house. To this day, we think that is the only reason she lived as long as she did.

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8 Rebekah E. January 25, 2010 at 4:06 PM

Thanks for the great post. True love. Everlasting love. Passionate love. I think this are all things we should reach for, maybe even have a little bit of all three with in your marriage.

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9 Eliza Y. January 25, 2010 at 9:56 PM

Sharon,

I thoroughly enjoy all of your books. I too, believe there is true and everlasting love out here in the world too. I too have been married for over 28 years to my very own Mr Darcy. I wanted to thank you for writing these books for us to enjoy.

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10 RobynL January 25, 2010 at 10:43 PM

I feel light and buoyant, yet also grounded and secure. Giddy and frivolous, yet strong and steady. Childish and masculine simultaneously.”………. wow, wouldn’t that be a great feeling and to have someone feel that way because of you would be so wonderful. What a truly great marriage.
yourstrulee(at)sasktel(dot)net

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11 RobynL January 25, 2010 at 11:25 PM

I feel that true, everlasting passionate love are goals to reach for in a marriage. Hopefully both work together to reach this goal.

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12 RobynL January 25, 2010 at 11:28 PM

I very much like the above cover; it is a display of happy times, having fun and companionship.

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13 RobynL January 25, 2010 at 11:29 PM

I have seen displays of passion for one another but these days I believe it is overdone sometimes. One is free to express themselves but no need, I say, to do it in such a way(and public at that) as to embarrass some.

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14 Rebekah E. January 26, 2010 at 10:33 AM

Love the cover. Can’t wait to read this series.

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15 Ashley January 26, 2010 at 12:41 PM

I absolutly adore Sharon Lathan’s portrayal of the Darcy’s, their lives, their relationship, & to be honest their families. Elizabeth and Darcy are the epitome of a young couple in love. I adore watching them evolve as a couple, as indivduals as well as becoming parents.
At times through out the Books, I could honestly relate to the Darcy’s, remembering not so long ago to my time, with my husband as a Newlywed. Of course the circumstances are different :) but the trials of a Newly Married couple are timeless IMO.

I look forward to the next book, as I cant wait to see Pemberly full with Family & Friends. I have to admit I am looking forward to the return of the Bingley’s and even Caroline! Though I have never cared much for Caroline, I came to change my opinions of her in Loving Mr.Darcy. I cant wait to see how she may evolve in the 4th book! I look forward to the return of Charles & Jane in Elizabeth & Darcys day to day life, as well as Georginna’s debut, Richard possibly falling in love and seeing how Dr. Darcy fairs at Pemberly…
The Fourth book cannot come soon enough!

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16 Laura Hartness January 26, 2010 at 1:31 PM

Ashley:

Now you’ve made me want to read these books even more! I just got Book 3 today from another contest– can’t wait to dive into Book 1. You really made it sound enticing!

Laura Hartness

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17 Sharon Lathan January 26, 2010 at 3:28 PM

Thank you Ashley! That is a wonderful review!! I truly appreciate your kind words. Thanks!

Hi Laura! You better get to reading, girlie! :)

Nora, Robyn, Eliza, and Rebekah, thank you for supporting the concept of true love and a happy marriage. We may be a minority in this world, but our voices can be strong!

Sincerely, Sharon

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18 Laura Hartness January 27, 2010 at 8:42 AM

Sharon:

LOL!! I’m tryin’!! Gotta win this contest, hopefully!

Nora:

I agree that aiming for 50+ years of loving marriage is a wonderful goal. I’m not looking forward to getting old (the gray hairs are starting to pop up on this 38 yr-old head!), but I’m looking forward to getting old with my husband.

Did you see the movie UP? I love that opening sequence that shows the lifespan of a long and enduring love affair. So sweet and touching.

Laura Hartness
The Calico Critic

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19 Sharon Lathan January 27, 2010 at 9:48 AM

Laura, I haven’t seen UP, but I sure hear great things about it. Now if I can just find time to watch a movie!!

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20 Laura Hartness January 28, 2010 at 12:53 PM

You’re not allowed to watch movies or TV anymore, remember?!? Just kidding. You gotta get your “24″, right?

I don’t know how writers with other careers and families have time to write. I guess it comes faster with practice.

Laura

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21 RobynL January 28, 2010 at 9:38 PM

“I love you, my Elizabeth. You are my soul, my blood and bone, my very life.”

another great example of a true/passionate/everlasting love. My goodness, Mr. Darcy does know how to enamour his wife.

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22 Vee January 29, 2010 at 10:00 PM

Sharon this a wonderful read! I absolutely adore the excerpt from MDMD. How could one not love this gorgeous man! I love his chats with Richard, he can pour out his soul to his dear friend/cousin.
The words he uses to describe his feelings for Lizzy are poetry all their own. And of course the genius is all yours Sharon. You constantly remind me why I LOVE your story!
I love the poems you share throughout this essay, however Steve’s is the best! You are lucky to have your own special Mr Darcy in Steve. An inspirational couple!
The very reason I adore your novels is the fact that Darcy and Lizzy share this “everlasting Love Romance and Passion”.
TSBO devotee
Vee

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23 Laura Hartness January 30, 2010 at 1:36 PM

Sharon:

You certainly do have your own Mr. Darcy– I agree with Vee. I’ve seen Steve brag on you and say sweet things about you on your Facebook page. What a sweetie!

Laura Hartness
The Calico Critic

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24 Margay January 30, 2010 at 7:38 PM

This sounds like a truly interesting series. I love reading continuations of favorite stories.
Margay

Margay1122(at)aol(dot)com

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25 Keira February 5, 2010 at 1:44 PM

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