The Twilight Between Two Forces

by Guest Blogger on October 18, 2010 · 10 comments

in About, D-F, Guest Blogger, Jane Austen, Regency

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by Monica Fairview guest blogger and author of The Other Mr. Darcy

Conflict is the bread and butter of romance. Of course, those of you who don’t like butter will probably object, so I’ll say it another way: conflict between a hero and a heroine are like a spark to kindle. Without one or the other, there’s no fire.

Having said that, I can’t say I’m a fan of plots where two people quarrel all the way through the story except in bed, and then, in the last chapter, they realize that their differences aren’t that important, or that one of them was missing some crucial information that he/she needed to resolve their differences. I don’t really think this is about romance. It’s more about two desperate people who’ll take what they can get. You can almost predict their future.

To me conflict has to be about opposition. There is something about the human psyche that hardwires us to deal in opposites, even if we can do this in many different ways. If we look at the ancient Chinese concept of yin and yang, it’s based on opposition: darkness and light, hardness and softness, hot and cold, positive and negative. But the relationship between yin and yang is always moving. It’s not a static, fixed thing. Just as daylight dissolves into twilight, which is neither light nor darkness, but both, so, too, do relationships, which aren’t simple oppositions, but are interactive, revolving situations that bring about change and growth.

That, to me, is how conflict in a real romance works. You bring together two people who initially don’t like each other, who are so different that you can’t imagine they could have anything in common, and you allow them to interact, to play the yin and yang game, pulling, pushing, dissolving, standing fast, until one day they find themselves changed. They’ve found that middle ground, and they can now dance around it. When they reach this state, a state one which belongs to neither one nor the other, then they can experience love.

other mr. darcy coverWhen I started out writing The Other Mr. Darcy, I knew right away that my characters would not like each other from the first second they met. We already know what Caroline Bingley is like because Jane Austen told us. She is snobbish, given to gossiping and making snide comments, and, as a social climber, she is very much a champion of social rules and all that is proper. The other Mr. Darcy, on the other hand, doesn’t need to climb. He’s a Darcy, with all that this implies, and he can afford to be casual about both his wealth and position. Plus, as an American, his ideas of what is important are very different from those of Miss Bingley, who has had her ideas fed to her ready-made at finishing school. She is Miss Rigid, he is Mr. Floppy. There’s no way on earth this is going to work. And of course they’re going to clash. It’s going to be a huge clash, too. And as long as they simply stay in those positions, they will continue to clash for infinity. And they’ll have to, because they’re stuck.

But it’s a romance, and a romance is different from a Tom and Jerry cartoon where cat and mouse are condemned to that permanent state of enmity. Here is where the yin and yang principle comes into effect. In The Other Mr. Darcy, Mr. Darcy tries to convince Caroline to set aside her scruples and discover freedom. She tries to convince him that his concept of freedom is false because it doesn’t work in a social context. Slowly, without them noticing it, they both change. He’s no longer Mr. Floppy, go where the wind blows you. She’s no longer Miss Rigid, her ideas carved in stone. They’re both something else, both transformed into some new thing that is a new combination of both. Call it the middle ground. Call it an opening up to each other. Call it love.

Conflict is an essential ingredient in a romance, but only if it is capable of bringing about transformation and change. Otherwise, conflict by any other name is simply a fight.

The Other Mr. Darcy—in stores October 2009!

Did you know that Mr. Darcy had an American cousin?!

In this highly original Pride and Prejudice sequel by British author Monica Fairview, Caroline Bingley is our heroine. Caroline is sincerely broken-hearted when Mr. Darcy marries Lizzy Bennet— that is, until she meets his charming and sympathetic American cousin...

Mr. Robert Darcy is as charming as Mr. Fitzwilliam Darcy is proud, and he is stunned to find the beautiful Caroline weeping at his cousin's wedding. Such depth of love, he thinks, is rare and precious. For him, it's nearly love at first sight. But these British can be so haughty and off-putting. How can he let the young lady, who was understandably mortified to be discovered in such a vulnerable moment, know how much he feels for and sympathizes with her?

Buy: The Other Mr. Darcy

Monica Fairview

About the Author

As a literature professor, Monica Fairview enjoyed teaching students to love reading. But after years of postponing the urge, she finally realized what she really wanted was to write books herself. She lived in Illinois, Los Angeles, Seattle, Texas, Colorado, Oregon and Boston as a student and professor, and now lives in London. To find out more, please visit http://www.monicafairview.co.uk/

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1 Monica Fairview October 9, 2009 at 5:11 AM

I just wanted to say how thrilled I am with this opportunity to be a guest blogger on this blog. I’ve always found it an amazing resource for … pretty much all romance, so it’s great to be here.

I’d be happy to take questions, just leave me one here.

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2 Sue October 9, 2009 at 11:00 AM

Wonderful guest blog Monica, that is the reason I love these books so, they encourage that hopeful feeling that people can resolve their differences and have a loving and passionate relationship.
I’m looking forward to reading your book very much!

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3 Joder October 9, 2009 at 11:18 AM

Great to have you here Monica! I love when an author can create a fresh take on an old classic. This book is definitely on my wishlist.

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4 Deidre October 9, 2009 at 3:23 PM

Hi Monica! What are some of your other favorite classic books and authors, besides the obvious of course? lol

Deidre

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5 Maureen October 9, 2009 at 4:46 PM

This book looks very interesting. I had never thought of Caroline Bingley as a romantic heroine since I am so used to thinking of her as a snob.

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6 etirv October 10, 2009 at 12:49 AM

Hi Monica, it’s great to see you in one of my favorite blogs! What do you think about paranormal Pride and Prejudice adaptations like Mr. Darcy, Vampyre and Pride and Prejudice and Zombies? Have you read any of them?

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7 Monica Fairview October 10, 2009 at 1:20 PM

Hello everyone, thanks for visiting.

Deidre: I love all sorts of books, classics and otherwise. I’m a Virginia Woolf and Oscar Wilde fan, besides that I love E.M Forster, Faulkner, Lawrence, and a lot of early 20th century literature. I do like the Bronte and Elizabeth Gaskell as well. Too many books, too short a life, I say!

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8 Monica Fairview October 10, 2009 at 1:24 PM

etirev, hello again. I’ve read a big chunk of P&P and Zombies, and I think it’s very clever, though not my type of novel, really. But it’s very well done, and I can understand why people love it. I haven’t read Mr Darcy, Vampyre, though I’ve read some of Amanda’s Grange’s other work and admired it. Knowing what I know of Amanda, I’m sure she has included a great deal of 19th century gothic in her novel, because she’d very well read in that genre, so I’m sure her vampyre lore is very historically accurate for Jane Austen’s time. I did an interview with her a while ago on my blog.

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9 Karin October 16, 2009 at 6:06 AM

I like the concept of this book from the way you described it.

ITA with what you said about not liking “where two people quarrel all the way through the story except in bed, and then, in the last chapter, they realize that their differences aren’t that important, or that one of them was missing some crucial information that he/she needed to resolve their differences.”

I get tired of conflict IRL. I don’t need to read it in books.

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10 Keira October 24, 2009 at 11:04 AM

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